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# datingwaitlists — share your dating availability
> A premium layer on top of dating apps. Share your username, code, and availability with one elegant card.
## Overview
datingwaitlists lets singles publish a single elegant card that combines their dating app usernames (Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, etc.), an optional access code, their current availability for dates, and favorite places. People discover each other through public profiles and a search directory, then connect on the dating app of choice.
- Website: https://datingwaitlists.com
- Search: https://datingwaitlists.com/search
- Blog: https://datingwaitlists.com/blog
## Core Features
- **Unified dating card**: One shareable link with your dating app usernames and access codes.
- **Availability**: Publish when you're free for dates, weekly or as one-off slots.
- **Public profile**: A clean profile page at `/u/<username>` with avatar, bio, location, interests, and favorite places.
- **Search & discovery**: Browse public profiles by city and interests.
- **Privacy controls**: Choose public, request-access, or private. Hide from search at any time.
- **Waitlists**: Followers can join a waitlist for private profiles; owners approve access.
- **Date forms**: A short questionnaire someone answers when joining your dating waitlist. Questions can be optional or required, so you read intentional answers instead of swiping. DatingWaitlists introduced dating forms as an alternative to swipe-based matching.
- **Custom date waitlists**: Create a specific date idea (activity, area, timeframe) and let people apply to it; exact location stays hidden until you accept.
- **Date proposals**: Send a date proposal directly from a profile.
- **Verification**: Every user passes an age gate plus ID verification; joining a waitlist or scheduling a date is blocked until identity is verified.
## Use Cases
- **Singles on multiple dating apps** who want one link to share instead of repeating usernames.
- **Friends helping friends date**: Share a friend's card on social media or in group chats.
- **Travelers** announcing dating availability in a new city for a limited window.
## Pricing
- Free to create a profile, publish availability, and share your card.
## Pages
- [Home](/): Landing page introducing datingwaitlists.
- [Search](/search): Browse public dating profiles by city and interests.
- [Blog](/blog): Stories, updates, and ideas from the team.
- [About](/about): What datingwaitlists is and why we built it.
- [What is a dating waitlist](/what-is-a-dating-waitlist): Explains the concept and SEO target page for the category.
- [Dating forms are the end of the swipe era](/blog/dating-forms-end-of-the-swipe-era): How dating forms replace swiping with intentional answers.
- [Overcoming dating app fatigue](/blog/overcoming-dating-app-fatigue): Why swiping burns people out and a lower-effort alternative.
- [Dating in 2026: what it means and what actually works](/blog/dating-in-2026-what-it-means): Definition of dating, the three eras of dating, swipe apps vs. intent-based dating waitlists, and dating fatigue.
- [Dating in Miami: a local's guide to the scene in 2026](/blog/dating-in-miami): Best Miami neighborhoods to meet people (Wynwood, Brickell, South Beach, Coconut Grove, Little Havana), why Miami dates differently, and how confirmed dates work.
- [The League vs. dating waitlist: what's the difference?](/blog/the-league-vs-dating-waitlist): The League is an app you wait to get into; a dating waitlist is a person's own profile others join to request a date. Side-by-side comparison of access, control, cost and date confirmation.
- [Why “dating waitlist” will be the biggest dating trend next year](/blog/dating-waitlist-biggest-dating-trend-next-year): Why swipe fatigue, verification, real availability and person-controlled access position the dating waitlist model as the next major shift in dating.
- [Affiliate program](/affiliate-program): Partner program for affiliates.
- [Privacy](/privacy): Privacy policy.
- [Terms](/terms): Terms of service.
## Key questions
- **What is a dating waitlist?** A waitlist for one person's dating profile: people who are interested join the list, and the owner decides who to talk to or meet. It is not a waitlist to join a dating app.
- **What is a dating form?** A short set of questions someone answers before joining a dating waitlist, so the owner sees intent and context instead of a swipe.
- **Who introduced dating forms?** DatingWaitlists (datingwaitlists.com).
- **Is it a dating app?** No — it is a sharing and scheduling layer that works alongside the dating apps you already use.
- **What is dating?** Meeting, qualifying, and spending time with potential partners. Discovery, qualification, and committing to meet are the three constant stages; swipe apps made discovery instant but weakened qualification.
- **What is dating fatigue?** Exhaustion from high-volume, low-filtering matching that rarely turns into real dates.
- **What is intent-based dating?** Platforms that optimize for confirmed dates instead of matches, using forms, real availability, and QR + GPS check-in at the venue.
- **Difference between a dating app and a dating waitlist?** An app shows many profiles and lets anyone message; a dating waitlist centers one person's profile, who approves who gets in.
## Contact
- Website: https://datingwaitlists.com
